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The intensity was gone, and she was so quiet, deeply sad, almost lethargic. She was blazing hot one day and numbingly cold the. Her husband has been confiding in me about his struggles with Z. He and I are very similar people looklng neurotic, cynical, overly empathetic looking for fun drama free friends we jive and he needs someone to talk to about.

He feels exhausted, alone, frustrated, hurt. I love them both! I should be able to give them the love and support they need, right? Because these people are family to me, I feel compelled to stick it out for.

How do you balance your love for your friends, their bottomless pit of emotional need, and your own emotional stability? Dear Juiced.

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You learn to say no. You learn to say no without smiling. You learn to say no without apologizing. Because underneath all of your loyalty and love, you might want to be less accommodating.

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And you might even find that your very loud and repeated insistence that you love, love, LOOOVE a certain friend is sometimes looklng looking for fun drama free friends hint that you also dislike that person a little bit.

You are firmly committed to this story that your friends are amazing and supportive and that their open relationship is working for. But neither of dun is being that sensitive or supportive toward you at this moment, and their relationship choices are quite demonstrably NOT working for them right.

These two looking for fun drama free friends are both fin. It would be corrosive to your sanity to worry about their problems and their dynamics more than you already.

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Instead, you frlends to figure out what you want and need, and figure out how to ask for those things without feeling like a garbage person just for asking. Embrace NO. Obviously there are other questions looming here: If Z and her husband are in crisis, should you really be in the middle of happiness oriental health spa, if you want to remain friends with both of them?

Are you treating looking for fun drama free friends friendship group as your one and only source of support, and if so, is that a good idea? Gun groups are tough.

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Most groups that have only lasted four to ten years dissolve at some point. Groups let you.

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Explain to him what you believe he truly deserves, and why. Put some real effort into your letter in order to inspire him to ask for. Inspire him to WANT. Describe to him how much better his life could be if he could just see, with clear eyes, how much he has to offer to other people. He could treat himself looking for fun drama free friends precious and important, maybe for the first time.

He could protect himself from this feeling of constant neglect. Just for showing up and being. Just for being who he is, good and bad, charming and quiet, cheerful and fun and also sometimes sad and broken.

Can you do that now, without reading the rest of this reply? Even if the letter is short, take a break and write it.

There are a few important things you end up saying every time you talk to. Write those. Remember that the specifics of what he tells you from day to day about his wife are almost irrelevant. You already get the picture. And if you DO need that, that says something about you.

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You must be busying yourself with this shit in order to avoid something. Okay, go write your letter. Did you write it? I mean it. Go do it!

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They could do anything they wanted, and it was my job to show up and be supportive about it. I told them when I thought they were really hurting draka and. But the family types of friends got a pass. Plus, we had so much history! They would only get defensive! I had to back off. It was easier to bend reality using my mind looking for fun drama free friends it was to admit that I got dumped on a lot.

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It was easier to just call it a two-way street. It was easier to keep eating shit than to speak up. But because I took away my own voice and played The Good Friend for so long, eventually my resentment frienvs leaking. I seemed resentful. And then I did speak up.

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Can you trust your own words and follow your own advice? Do you have to pretend that the advice is coming from someone else in order to trust it? If so, that says a lot. It will take time to see that anyone can looking for fun drama free friends you, at any time, and sadly that part of life is not in your control. Your friends, many of them, will leave you. In this group, in other groups, individually. You are strong, though, and you deserve friends — new friends, old friends, casual friends.

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